SIDDHANT CHAUDHARY Co-Founder, LifePlugin | Experience Design
Siddhant blends art, tech & spirituality crafting experiences that invite participants to shift perspectives and rediscover purpose & meaning
Ever stood after a job interview and your mind just went ‘There’s no way I’m getting that job’, or worse, stood after rejection and thought ‘Maybe this is what I deserved’?
We’re sad to tell you that you might be burdened by your own limiting beliefs.
The good thing is, that now you’re aware of what’s stopping you from achieving your goals to the best of your capabilities.
We’re going to work our way into a new belief system that serves you better using 3 steps:
There is no
better time
to build
yourself
Step 1 is to dream big, and find a new statement that serves your belief system.
We’re not just going to tell ourselves that we’re good enough, but rather embody the vision that ‘we deserve good things.
If the thought of that makes you uncomfortable for a fraction of a moment, we’re already onto a good start.
Step 2 is to ask ourselves these 3 questions by envisioning ourselves in both our belief systems, the old and the new.
Close your eyes and use your imagination while asking yourself these 3 things;
What do your relationships look like?
What does your career look like?
What do your next 5 years look like?
Imagine yourself in both of your belief systems, what do all of these look like if you genuinely believe you’re not good enough?
Does it feel like you’re playing it low? Do you see yourself settling for something you’re unhappy with within the next 5 years because your belief system convinced you that’s what you deserve?
Not the most comforting thought to sit with, this visualization might help you understand how necessary it is not to be the reason behind your shortcomings.
What do all of them look like now that you know better, now that you know that you deserve good things?
Does taking chances on yourself eventually pay off because of the compounding effect of your actions? Do you finally find yourself not settling for, but rather picking and choosing what your inner voice agrees with?
You must feel what your mind says before you let these questions take you into the scenarios to help you truly grasp what either system provides
Now comes the slower and tougher step of this process;
Step 3 is all about analyzing and understanding which system serves you and taking small, very slow action steps into stepping into your new belief system until you have enough evidence to support it.
This process will help you overcome the negative judgment your mind holds against you every time you take a step in the right direction and help you build a better inner monologue to deal with failures that will only help you understand yourself better in the long run.
Your new, rewired, and stronger belief system awaits you!
